Review before discovery
New uploads stay pending until a moderator approves them. We may also remove content later if new context or a report shows that it breaks the rules.
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Online, Unfortunately reviews uploads before discovery and gives members clear control over reveal, conversation, reporting, blocking, and deletion.
Last updated August 3, 2026
Anonymous discovery
Discovery shows the meme, not the creator’s name, photo, age, biography, or gallery. Posts from the same creator may return with a stable presence mark private to that pair.
Automatic reciprocal reveal
The server evaluates smoothed evidence in both directions and reveals both profiles when reciprocal confidence is strong enough. There is no visible score or fixed reaction target.
Say hi before chat
After reveal, either person may choose Say hi. The choice stays hidden and may be withdrawn until both people choose it. Two active choices open one private chat.
Private reports, immediate blocks
The person you report is not told who reported them. Blocking separates both accounts across discovery, relationships, chat, media, and notifications immediately.
Offline safety
Meeting someone in person
A reaction, reveal, Say hi choice, message, or meeting is not consent to any other interaction.
Stay in the app while you are getting to know someone. Never send money or financial information.
Meet in a public place, arrange your own transport, and tell someone you trust where you are going.
Leave if you feel pressured or unsafe. You do not owe politeness, an explanation, or another chance.
If someone threatens immediate harm, contact local emergency services. The app is not an emergency service.
Adults only
Members must be 18 or older.
Online, Unfortunately is only for people aged 18 and older. Report a suspected underage account immediately. We may suspend it while we review.
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