Post-moderation
Eligible uploads appear without waiting for moderator approval. Reports, safety signals, repeated removals, or a moderator may quarantine or remove a post.
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Online, Unfortunately uses post-moderation and gives members clear control over reveal, conversation, reporting, blocking, and deletion.
Last updated August 12, 2026
Anonymous discovery
Discovery shows the meme, not the creator’s name, photo, age, biography, or gallery. Posts from the same creator may return with a stable presence mark private to that pair.
Automatic reciprocal reveal
The server evaluates smoothed evidence in both directions and reveals both profiles when reciprocal confidence is strong enough. There is no visible score or fixed Keep target.
Common ground stays sparse on purpose
After reveal, approved media both people independently kept or published may appear only when enough overlap exists. OU does not show who kept what, when they kept it, or the media that caused reveal.
Say hi before chat
After reveal, either person may choose Say hi. The choice stays hidden and may be withdrawn until both people choose it. Two active choices open one private chat.
Private reports, hard stops
The person you report is not told who reported them. Blocking immediately removes both accounts from discovery, relationships, chat, notifications, and new media access. Media already delivered to a device cannot be recalled.
Offline safety
Meeting someone in person
A Keep, reveal, Say hi choice, message, or meeting is not consent to any other interaction.
Stay in the app while you are getting to know someone. Never send money or financial information.
Meet in a public place, arrange your own transport, and tell someone you trust where you are going.
Leave if you feel pressured or unsafe. You do not owe politeness, an explanation, or another chance.
If someone threatens immediate harm, contact local emergency services. The app is not an emergency service.
Adults only
Members must be 18 or older.
Online, Unfortunately is only for people aged 18 and older. Report a suspected underage account immediately. We may suspend it while we review.
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